To do …
How often do I find myself writing lists of things I have to do, then work off the list, and start a new one with the things I did not get a chance to get done.
And repeat. And repeat.
It keeps me organised, sure. I don’t forget a lot this way, and I feel in control on top of this. It makes me happy to tick off aspects, too, and I kind of like this satisfaction and the feeling of having accomplished something.
However, lately I have noticed that I react allergically to this must-do pressure, a new development which has put me in a corner. I like my lists, I dislike having to do something.
Here is a thought I had last Saturday while housewifing happily. I had come home from a school trip at night, no time to write lists. Yet I was busy unpacking, doing laundry, listening to music and singing along, organising my kitchen and cleaning the cats and so on. And in the afternoon I realized I had gotten tons of things done – with joy. I even had had time to paint my nails and drink coffee and play with the cats! πΉ which were really glad to see me. And there had not been any list but the one in my mind.
So, in the future, each of my lists will state:
βto do with joy πβ
to remind me of this simple truth. Getting things done with joy brings joy.